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With the wedding of Dermot's daughter (Deirdre) and
my father (Fred), and even before that, Dermot and Ann went out of their way
to make my sister and I feel welcomed into the family. We were brought into
their life and their hearts. The world is a sadder place with his passing.
He was a kind and caring man and will be missed dearly. I am so very proud
to be part of their family.
~ Andrea Leafloor
I am deeply Saddened by the Passing of Dermot. I've
never met a nicer, kinder or more gentle person. What a privilege it was to
have him as a friend! He is gone but I will never forget Him. If I'm lucky,
I'll see Him again when my time on earth is done!!
God Bless You Dermot!!
Slán mo speisialta cara!
Frank Maher
Dear Ann and girls:
Our hearts were saddened when we learned of Dermot's death. He brought so
much joy to all who heard him play and sing. Heaven will be more heavenly
with his gracious presence.
To his dear friends, Fergus and Denis:
You have lost a loving friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely;
Walter and Maureen Finlay
St Shott's, NL
Dermot was a very special man, with a very special
talent, but I want to talk more about the man, than his music. When you
spoke to Dermot, he was always more interested in what was going on in your
life than in his own. On a trip to Liverpool some time ago (heading to
Ireland to visit his brothers), Dermot kindly said he’d throw a penny in the
River Mersey for me. He said I had to give him the penny myself and when I
did, he wrapped it in a Sons’ of Erin business card (this was just after the
release of Sons’ of Erin “At it Again” c.d.). When he returned to St. John’s
he told me he’d sang “I wish I was back in Liverpool” on the boat to Ireland
and thought of me. That Christmas, in the card to Ford and I from he and
Ann, was a picture of Dermot’s hand, over the rail of the boat, dropping the
penny in from the business card to the water! I framed it straight away and
it hangs in our kitchen. This was typical of Dermot – not just to think of
nice things he could do for other people, but to actually do them – I can’t
think of anyone else who would have thought to take that photograph! I feel
privileged to have had Dermot as a friend and will always remember him,
especially his lovely smile, with much love. Goodnight and God Bless Dermot.
Hope you’re singing away in Heaven with Buddy Holly, with a Guinness in your
hand!
(Angela Record – St. John’s, NL)
To Deirdre, Suzanne, Grainne, & Mrs. O'Reilly:
I wish to express my deepest sympathy of losing such a charming man, your
dad and husband - Mr. O'Reilly. Our lost of this brilliant man is heaven's
gain. I am sure he will be singing forever among the angels of heaven. We
will miss his music and his wit.
Deirdre, I still have your father's autograph that you gave me over 20 years
ago, it's kept in a safe place so I will always remember him.
I found this Irish poem -
"Remembered Joy"
****
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free!
I follow the plan God laid for me.
I saw His face, I heard His call,
I took His hand and left it all...
I could not stay another day,
To love, to laugh, to work or play;
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
And if my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss...
Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss.
My life's been full, I've savoured much:
Good times, good friends, a loved-one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief-
Don't shorten yours with undue grief.
Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.
With heart felt sympathy,
Michelle Cole (Deirdre's high school classmate (1982)
We are deeply saddened by the passing of Dermot. We
first met Dermot in the early 1990's when we were living on Fogo Island.
Dermot was performing at the Brimstone Head Folk Festival and always paid a
visit on the Sunday of that weekend to the Kelly’s at Joe Batt’s Arm. There,
he and other musicians played and sang for Mrs. KELLY. It wasn’t until 1998
that we met Ann when she and Dermot stayed over for a night on their way to
Fogo Island to the Folk Festival. Let us tell you that it was a treat as
Dermot, talked, told stories and sang while we sat around the kitchen table.
Time wasn’t a factor as we were so focused and thrilled at the flow of music
and the intellect and professionalism exhibited by Dermot. Since then we
have sat and listened to his music on a number of occasions at St. John’s
and Clarenville. In particular we remember the night we stayed with Dermot
and Ann at Torbay after being downtown. Dermot keep us up all night. Guess
what the topic of conversation and music was!! Buddy Holly. With sleepy
eyes, we enjoyed every minute.
Dermot has had a great impact on traditional music and is without doubt an
icon in the music industry. He was admired and respected by everyone,
everywhere. His music and memory will live on forever.
Our deepest condolences to Ann, family and friends of Dermot.
A great musician, A Great Human Being, A FRIEND TO ALL.
Baker & Kelly
Clarenville, NL
Mom called me Saturday morning to tell me that
Dermot had passed away. I still don't know if I really believe it because,
although I had only met him once, he was a legend in my eyes. I remember my
family telling me stories of nights at The Strand, listening to the music of
Ryan's Fancy. I believe there were times that my dad would actually take to
the floor when a lively tune would ring out! When I left home to head to MUN,
I remember how
excited I was to hear Dermot play at The Blarney Stone. It was my first time
seeing
him and Fergus live and you wouldn't know but I was seeing the biggest act
in America! To me, they were celebrities, icons of their time and their
music was as fresh that night as it was back in the 70's. Ironically, it was
only a few days before his death that I put in a Ryan's Fancy CD, so as to
hear that distinctive voice of Dermot's and what a voice it was. I know we
can't live forever but I wish Dermot could have lived for many more years
because he brought so much joy into the lives of his fans. To Ann and his
daughters: I don't know you but I feel so sad for your loss. What a
wonderful joy to share your lives with a man who, I'm sure, was a wonderful
husband and father.
To Fergus and Denis: please accept my condolences on the loss of your music
partner and friend. Your beautiful harmony has been silenced on earth but,
someday, you'll meet again and what a reunion that will be!!
Sherri Leighton, Halifax, NS
(formally Sherri Finlay, St. Shott's, NL)
Anne and Girls. Our hearts were saddened when we
learned of Dermot's death. He
brought so much joy to all who heard him play and sing. Heaven will be more
heavenly with his gracious presence. To his dear friends Fergus and Denis.
You have lost a loyal friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you .
Sincerely, Walter and Maureen Finlay,
St.Shotts
My sincere sympathy and condolences go to Ann and
family. Dermot was a gentle man.
God bless and keep you strong.
Don Sullivan
(Sullivan's Gypsies)
"The time has come to say good-bye
to an "Old Soul" that has once again learned to fly.
Listen to the wind as it sweeps the sea and land
and you will hear him and Buddy Holly with their guitars in hand."
Many men are Husband, few are Partners.
Many men are Fathers, few are "Daddy".
Many men are Musicians, few are Idols and Mentors.
Many men are Kind, few are Genuine.
Many men have Friends and Family, few Cherish them.
Dermot was definitely one of the few and I am honoured to have known him.
When I moved back to the province in '96 I began working at Erin's Pub ('97)
and with little family in the immediate area at the time, Dermot and Ann,
along with Ralph, Fergus, Lisa, Mark and Family made sure I was part of
theirs.
Will miss our dances, our drives, our talks (especially the ones of
Labrador), Halloween with Rebecca (see Ann, he handed out the treats and I
have the pictures to prove it! Hehehe), the philosophy, the voice, the free
spirit and that smile.
The strength and love shown by Ann, Deirdre, Suzanne, and Grainne at the
funeral home on Tuesday was amazing. As well as the courage and loving
spirit of Fergus. They definitely have Dermot's infectious spirit and the
girls have married similar spirits if Fred is any indication.
Will hold dear the memories and music and the honour of calling him my
friend.
Lots of love
Kelly Waters, John Pennell and little Rebecca.
Deepest heartfelt condolences to Dermot's family
and friends and sidekicks Fergus and Dennis. Dermot has left a legacy of
wonderful memories, mischievous moments and beautiful music. Dermot was a
musical icon and his music and memory will always be cherished by all so
fortunate to be touched by him. Farewell friend. Thank you.
Charlotte and Vince MacLean
Washabuck, Cape Breton
I am sad to hear of Dermot's passing. He was a
member of Ryan's Fancy, a truly great group. I saw them play many years ago
in the Gym of the Old College of Trades and Technology, they were playing
for the orientation of new students. Their singing was great and I loved it.
The main memory I have from that day was when they played the song, "I Never
Will Marry", I remember sitting there on the gym floor and swaying back and
forth to that song, even singing parts of it...."I'll be no Man's Wife....,
I really believed it then; Now 27 years later, I will soon be married 27
years and have two of the greatest kids in the world; Wanda Lee & William
and a Son in Law, Micheal, along with a very sweet and cute grandson- Sean-
8 years (my daughter had to have the Irish spelling). And last but not
least I have a wonderful hubby, Kirk who I wouldn't trade in, he is just
great and then someday he will pass and I can again sing "I never will
Marry"... but add "again". As he has been my life sole-mate. I thank Ryan's
Fancy for the music. May Dermot's family take comfort in knowing that he
will be missed by you and all.
God Bless,
Maureen,
Gloucester, On.
Ann , Deirdre, Suzanne & Grainne,
Our Thought are with you all during this difficult time.
We will always treasure the happy memories and music of Dermot’s.
I will always remember the great time I had with you all on my trip to
Torbay.
Hazel and Joe
Bansha, Co.Tipperary. Ireland
Denis,
Garth & Frances Cochran here. Just a short note to let you know we found out
we lost a good friend -- Dermot. We've often thought of all of you and
entertained hope that we might find a way to rekindle a friendship -- but
not like this. In any case, we have so many good memories from (gawd) thirty
years ago and more. We'll hoist a jar in memory of Dermot, indeed of all of
you, and hope you will as well.
As ever
Garth & Frances Cochran
Calgary
To Anne, Deidre, Suzanne and Grainne:
It is with a full heart and tearful eye that I write on this sad occasion.
Dermot's passing marks also the passing of an era for all of us who came of
age with Ryan's Fancy or as that wise old clown, Ray Guy christened us
Ryan's Fancy fanciers.
I first got to know Dermot when he was then part of Sullivan's Gypsies and
so have many long memories - memories of many late nights at the Strand
Lounge in the Avalon Mall with music, fun and friends. Often times we would
leave the Strand in the wee hours and head off to a house party with Denis,
Fergus and Dermot. I don't think that there was ever a bunch of young people
who had so much fun.
Dermot introduced me to songwriters I hadn't heard of before such as Tom
Paxton, Ralph McTell, and Pete St. John. I still listen to these wonderful
songs and remember that it was Dermot I first heard them from. I would
surely embarrass myself by singing along with "The Streets of London" my
favourite. I always appreciated the way Dermot would credit the songwriter.
In 1974 a bunch of us friends joined Ryan's Fancy on their Irish tour. It
left me with lasting memories and just recently revisited some of the same
spots in Ireland.
To all of you in the words of "The Parting Glass" "Good night and God be
with you all"
Dermot, thank you for allowing us to be part of your life. It was a
wonderful show.
On behalf of my children Marianne and Damian and the Renews Chidley family,
our heartfelt condolences.
Marie Chidley
Edmonton, Alberta
Dermot was the one who turned me on to Irish music
36 years ago. I was fighting cancer and he gave me an album -- Planxty. That
music got me through some pretty hard times. Our families were friends for
years until a few years after we moved to Calgary (where we still got
together with the band on their occasional trips west) and, as inevitably
happens, lost touch after Ryan's Fancy broke up. Now he's gone -- but not
our memories of him.
Ann, wish we were there to help comfort you and to share our memories with
you. We had some great times (Like Dermot and Hal Andrews singing Danny Boy
by the fridge) or when the mummers crashed our Christmas party. Bless you
and the girls.
Dermot, I'm certain you've already found the Céilidh.
Garth & Frances Cochran
Calgary, Alberta
I grew up, quite literally, with Ryan's Fancy. My
parents used to go to hear them at the Strand Lounge in St. John's, and
became friends with them all; they came to our home for meals and the
occasional party. Then it was my turn, when I came of age--okay, nearly of
age--to go to hear them at pubs, either back in St. John's when I went to
visit after we moved to Nova Scotia, or at the Agricultural College where I
was a student, and where they came to play more than one roarin' good time.
Dermot was a charmer, with the gift of storytelling as great as the gift of
music, and I’m sure he could sing the birds right out of the trees and make
the angels weep with joy. I was so glad that he kept on making such
marvelous music after Ryan’s Fancy disbanded, and that he and Fergus were
lifting the rafters in St. John’s just last week. Dermot brought us as
Atlantic Canadians closer to our heritage of marvelous music—he and his
bandmates Denis and Fergus were advocates of our musical heritage long
before it was trendy to do so.
Dermot, my friend, "Thig crioch air an t-saoghal ach mairidh gaol agus ceòl"
(An end will come of this world, but music and love will endure.) It's
Scottish, rather than Irish, Gaelic, but the sentiment remains the same.
I'll raise a Guinness to your memory and your legacy--long will they remain
with us.
Jodi DeLong, MA
Scotts Bay, Nova Scotia
Dermot, his brother Eddy and myself shared a beer
together at a Pub in
Dublin. I will never forget it!
My sincere condolences,
Sheldon Dedieu / Miller's Jug
The world has lost a wonderful troubadour, a
genuine gentleman, and a
man who's influence on generations of singers, players, and listeners
of traditional irish music can never be forgotten. I and my bandmates
(Muldow) recorded a cd with Dermot a few years back, and for most of
us, it was our first time in a studio. Dermot and Ann treated us like
family from the first time we entered the doors of their home. We
will never forget the endless pots of coffee and Ann's homemade
cookies and cakes! Our condolences to the O'Reilly family, to Fergus
and his family, and all those who Dermot knew and touched, both
through his music and personal friendships. Farewell and God Bless.
Johnny Graham
Ann, my thoughts are with you and the
family. I was honoured to call Dermot my friend he was one of the great ones
and will be greatly missed.
Rest in peace my dear friend,
Bridget Noonan
Bay de Verde
My most sincere condolences to the
O'Reilly family. Dermot was the reason many of us picked up a guitar or
fiddle for the first time. He has left an outstanding legacy in Newfoundland
performing arts that will never be forgotten. Class act all the way! He will
be sadly missed.
:Jamie Wiseman
Gander, Newfoundland
My deepest sympathy and heartfelt
condolences to the O'Reilly family. Dermot's music will always be a part of
us all, he will be deeply missed.
Keith Brophy
Sherwood Park, AB (Ferryland,NL)
There's good Irish Music and then
there's GREAT Irish Music!
Dermot, Fergus and Denis provided lots of great music.
Back in my drinking days in Toronto they were very patient with me and
generously allowed me to occasionally sing on stage with them at the
New Windsor House.
Their likes won't be seen nor heard again!
Harry Warner
To the O'Reilly Family, it is with a
saddened heart that we hear of Dermot's passing. We are truly blessed to
have had such a wonderful person touch our hearts. We will truly miss him!
Joy & Peter Barfoot
Mack Barfoot
As I read through the emails and thoughts people
have posted, I am flooded with fond memories of being 5 years old in St.
John's, where I was born. A recurring theme I read is this man's love not
only of music, and the people who make it, but his charismatic character,
and his appreciation of everyone, but especially of children. I think Dermot
was my first crush, at the tender age of 5! My parents met "the boys" of
Ryan's Fancy during an evening out at "The Strand". My father was a pilot
for EPA, and the buys were "frequent flyers" long before that term had ever
been invented! Dad always had a place for one of them back in the days when
the skies were a safe place to be and the crew could welcome the public up
to sit in the "jumpseat" to enjoy the flight from the cockpit. The visits to
the Strand became a common social event for mom and dad, and then there was
the 3 am spaghetti fests at our home on Winnipeg street after the pub
closed. I would wake to everyone laughing and having a great time, and I
remember sneaking out to the kitchen on more than one occasion to say hello
- Dermot would always take some time to chat before I was sent packing back
to bed. He became fondly known by me as "hippie", because I had never really
known a man with long hair as he had back in the 70's, and I thought that
was a good name for him! I remember being at his and Anne's home on one
occasion when Grainne, his youngest, was just a baby - she had the sweetest
little baby grin, and I was quite sure she was just a chip off the old
block!
With my dad being a pilot, we moved frequently, and eventually settled in
Nova Scotia. Dad continued to see the boys on his flights after EPA became
CP Air, and we never forgot them, their music frequently played all weekend
in our home - we had every LP they ever recorded. I was a fan of Irish music
when it was really not a very cool thing for a young kid to do. I wrote to
Dermot when he recorded "Brand New Song" and told him how much I loved that
tune - it made me happy just to listen to it and kept my toes tapping - he
reciprocated by sending me their songbook, signed by all of them - it is a
treasure I will always cherish, dog eared and with it's binding falling
apart. We connected up with them again when they played at the Nova Scotia
exhibition in the early 1980's, and Dermot and Fergus came to spend the
night at our place while Denis was taking time with his family. What a hoot
we had - I don't remember any instruments being played, but I do remember a
lot of hysterical laughter - the boys were in awe of my father's rather
robust vegetable garden, and the fact that he grew flowers (nasturtiums)
that were "edible" - I can still vividly see Dermot with a huge pile of
these leaves sticking out of his mouth as he tasted them for himself! I can
also see them laying in the long green grass of our lawn, playing with our
dogs and just enjoying the country air and the break from their schedule. On
that same visit, the next morning my father cooked the boys a big steak
breakfast before they hit the road - my dad was a fan of somewhat "rare"
beef, and when Dermot cut into the delightful morsel, he hastily handed it
back to my dad and asked "Ivan, can you cook this?" Great memories are
those. I had the opportunity to see Dermot and Fergus several years ago at
O'Reilly's in St. John's when I was traveling there on business - Dermot was
there in his little vest I remember him always sporting, and singing better
than ever - I ran up and reintroduced myself as a grown up, and still got
the bear hug I remember getting when I was a kid. I told him of my dad's
health issues, and sadness flooded his eyes for his old friend.
So, today I shed a few tears - for the loss of Dermot, a talented musician,
a sweet, funny and kindhearted man. Ironically, today is also my late
father's birthday. Dad would have been 75 today - we lost him to Alzheimer's
in June of 2005. My thoughts are of them both tonight, and of what they must
be chatting about at their reunion - the world has suffered a loss with the
passing of these two men, but I am sure that heaven is an entertaining place
with them there.
God bless you Dermot - rest in peace
blessings to Anne, Deirdre, Suzanne, and Grainne
Kelly Marcoux (nee DeLong)
Stewiacke, Nova Scotia
Dermot O'Reilly was a singer/songwriter and
musician extraordinaire. A tremendous loss to our music community,
Newfoundland and Labrador and the world in general. His memory will live on
in his music -
A Children's Winter
Candlelight and Wine
Labrador Song
Mist Upon a Morning
I never met Dermot but whenever I hear his music, or that of Ryan's Fancy,
it gives me a feeling of joy. There is something so familiar about all the
songs that I sing the words without ever having tried to learn them. The
wonderful lilt to his voice and twinkle in his eye will be sadly missed. My
condolences to his family, Fergus, Dennis, and his many close friends.
Trudy Veitch
Holyrood
Dermot's family and Newfoundland have
lost a great person.
Having first seen Ryan's Fancy at the Strand in St. John's many years ago,
fell in love with their great music and humour.
He will be sorely missed by his family and the people of Newfoundland.
My condolences to the O'Reilly family.
The great doors have been opened for you Rest In Peace
Chuck St. George
On behalf of Celtic Connection, I wish
to send along our sincere condolences to the family and friends of a true
gentleman, our friend Dermot. As a young lad, just 15 years old, I was lucky
enough to share the stage in the various venues of our downtown core...Great
Big Sea, Connemara, Manchester Run, Fine Crowd, The Punters, just to name a
few...We all
had many things in common, but two in particular. First, a love of
Irish/Celtic music. Second and more important, on top of our love of the
music, we all shared an admiration of one special individual, Dermot O'
Reilly. He is one of the few people I have had the pleasure of knowing that
I cannot ever recall seeing anything other than a smile upon his
face. You will be sadly missed but never forgotten. We are blessed to be
able to smile and remember such a wonderful entertainer, husband, father,
and ambassador. Godspeed Dermot...
Scott Graham
Dermot,
We shared a lot of memories. Glad I had that great laugh and chat with you
and Fergie on February 15th. Thanks for the music and friendship.
Codladh go sámh a chara,go dtí go buailimid le chéile arís!
ó Gary Kavanagh.
I would like to thank Dermot for
sharing part of his wonderful life and personality with me, and all of Nfld.
I was a follower of Dermot for the past decades and today I'm sifting
through old VHS tapes as I've collected a lot with Dermot and his friends. I
have him and Stan Rogers singing in a kitchen, and it's always been one of
my favourites.
The last time my brother was home from Toronto we went to George St, two
nights in a row to listen to Dermot & Fergus and he promised to sing "West
Country Lady" for us, which he finished the night with and was the last song
we heard him play.
My deepest sympathy to his family but I'm sure he will live forever in your
hearts, as he will in mine.
Cheers,
Gerry Murphy,
Long Hr
I’ve decided to send my thoughts and
prayers in this form as it looks like I won’t be able to make it home for
Thursday, which upsets me greatly. I spent most of my teenage years weaned
on the music of Ryan’s Fancy. It wasn’t until the age of nineteen that I
picked up a guitar and began to learn the songs that would later become a
part of my own repertoire week after week. I was in total awe of Dermot as
my buddy Harry and I would catch his performance at the Blarney Stone on
George in the early nineties. To record my first CD at Dermot’s studio in
Torbay in 1997 was nothing short of a dream. I developed a wonderful
friendship with both Dermot and Ann over the months and years that followed;
my wife and I have visited them on a couple of occasions while home for
Christmas; on any vacation home our favorite evening out was to catch Dermot
at Erin’s; one of our fondest memories of our wedding was when Dermot
performed at the church. So many wonderful memories - I can hardly type this
letter for the tears in my eyes.
As a personal tribute to a beautiful man and unparalleled inspiration I
started my performance last Saturday night with “Mist upon a morning” - I
had to keep my eyes closed just to get through it.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Ann and the O’Reilly family.
God bless you Dermot, you will never be forgotten.
Dave and Suzanne Anthony,
Ottawa
Although we had never met Dermot, we would like to
express our sincere sympathy to his family and friends.
Theresa and Len Bungay
Admiral's Beach
St. Mary's Bay
It was always a privilege to go watch Dermot play,
whether it be at O' Reilly's, Erin's, Darry's or Bridie's he always gave
100%, and no doubt the drink certainly went down a lot quicker watching him
perform. I never knew him personally and only quickly chatted with him a few
times but that was enough for him to leave a great impression on me. All the
best to his family and friends.
Shane Croft
It was with huge sadness that I heard the news of
Dermot's passing. My parents were friends and fans of Ryan's Fancy and it
was more than once that "The Boys" spent an evening in our kitchen in St.
Johns, and once again when we moved to NS. Dermot was my first "love" when I
was about 8, and my sister and I called him "Hippie". We loved his hair!
I remember a hilarious walk in our woods with Fergus, Dermot, Dennis and
Allister MacGillivary- remember Dermot and Fergus both trying Nastursium
leaves out of our garden, ("You eat those?!?) and being brave trying my
father's fabulous, but very rare BBQ steaks.
I still have, and play, every Ryan's Fancy album made.
He will be missed by everyone whose life he touched through song and story,
and I wish him peace, and to his lovely family- my most sincere condolences.
There's more music in Heaven today, and a little less on Earth, due to his
passing.
Rest in peace, Dermot.
Heather DeLong,
Nova Scotia
To the O'Reilly family
We are very sad to hear of Dermot's passing
I have always felt that Ryan's Fancy have brought our culture back to us and
have inspired other singers to do so, his memory will live in all of us.
I have a copy of his visit to Best's Harbour in 1982 with Pat Byrne and the
rest of the boys from Ryan's Fancy, when they played on the wharf of our
dear friends Frank & Millicent Best, who have passed on as well.
I watched it again today, in his memory and marveled at the wonderful spirit
of this man.
Please accept our condolences
Betty & Carl Hooper
St. John's, NL
One of my favorite past times when I
was a younger 20 something was to enter the talent night at Erin's Pub.
Quite often it was hosted by Dermot. During these times Erin's was like our
living room and my friends and I would often have a pint or two with Dermot,
Ralph, Jim Joyce, and whoever would talk to us. Dermot knew we loved the
music and he would sit and talk and listen to us.
One of the more un-nerving things I have done was to perform, "Candlelight
and Wine" while Dermot was in the audience. He came up, smiled, and said,
"That was a real good job!" I will never forget that!
I was transferred to Corner Brook in 95. Irish music was not heard of in the
bars, but, was well listened to by the people on their Cd Players,etc. I was
at a party and they had Ryan's Fancy playing, and I said, "I know the guy
singing, it's Dermot O'Reilly." They didn't believe me. I thought it was
funny, so I called 722-1916, Erin's Pub. Low and behold
Dermot happened to be there. I got him on the phone and he spoke to the
crowd at the time in Corner Brook. That was awesome.
He was appreciated all over, his music is dateless, his smile heart warming,
and his interest in every person he met unbelievable.
Dermot, I am ever so proud to have known you.
Rest now.
Rod Priddle
Dermot was instrumental in
producing our first Cd "Passage" which we partially recorded in his basement
studio at "Piperstock Productions". during that time we got to know and love
Dermot as a loving, patient man whose calm demeanor was an encouragement for
us to forge ahead.
He was not critical but a positive force for us all. We were younger than
but he could see a future with us. He attended many of our functions and was
at our first CD launch with his wife Ann. Ann would provide a lunch for us,
or a cup of tea into the late night hours at the studio. She was a loving
wife and took care of all of Dermot's needs.
Dermot was also at our Christmas show at O'Reilly's, he and Fergus O'Byrne
had come in at the end of the set as they were preparing to begin theirs.
They were both very complimentary of the group, how much we had grown
musically and that the "little" ones were still there and well able to keep
up, was blown away by Maria, Robyn and Brittany's voices and the individual
solos, etc, group harmonies, it was a heart-felt love of theirs to share
with us and a respect of what we have accomplished in 14 years.
Dermot will be missed by all of us, the St. John's community and the George
St. Scene- he was a weekly regular at O'Reilly's
God Bless you Dermot- we'll miss you! Rest in Peace
The Celtic Fiddlers
I would like to send my heartfelt
condolences to Dermot's Family and friends. Although I have only spoken to
Dermot once or twice he always took the time to stop and say a heartfelt
hello. Ten years ago, I heard Dermot play at Erin's pub for the first time
and I have been a devoted listener ever since. I moved away from home four
years ago, and each
time I return for visit, I have always made a point of heading down to
O'Reilly's and listening to Dermot and Fergus play. I did so this past
Christmas, and cherished every moment. When I heard of Dermot's passing, I
was playing and singing some Newfoundland tunes with friends. We stopped for
a moment and raised a glass to a man whose music will sound for generations
to come. I can think of no better tribute than to continue the musical
legacy that Dermot, Fergus and Dennis brought to our hearts and lives.
Dermot, your music and actions spoke volumes of the what it means to be a
true Newfoundlander. Although your guitar has fallen silent, it will play on
in our hearts forever!
God bless Dermot and may your soul and all the souls of the faithfully
departed rest in peace, Amen.
Mike Bidgood,
St. John's NL
My deepest sympathy to Dermot's family
and friends on his passing. He was a wonderful person and will truly be
missed.
Mildred Speer
Winnipeg, MB
Well Sunday marked only the third time in my life that
I can recall shedding a tear... and of those three times, two were the
result of Dermot's profound effect their music has on my life. I honestly
could not hold them back in 2004 when himself, Fergus and Denis stood up on
stage and chilled me to the bone with their beautiful, captivating harmonies
after receiving their Lifetime Achievement Award.
When a friend told me of his passing Sunday, I refused to believe it and
went immediately to the Internet where countless clips of the news confirmed
it for me. I sat there flashing back to where I'd heard their music.... all
Dad's albums, the festivals, the small gigs... it is a way of life for
countless Newfoundlanders who were fortunate enough to grow up with their
music in their homes.
Isn't it weird when you can feel so upset over losing someone you don't even
really know? Every year I'm home I go see Fergus and Dermot play somewhere,
and they never disappoint. Their music makes you long to be living back
home.
I'll never forget one night @ O'Reilly's in 2001 when a huge crowd of my
Mom's family, home for a visit, were taking in his show and he announced a
song dedicated to me as I was returning back to Alberta in a couple of days.
It was West Country Lady... the most beautiful song ever written, and it had
long been my favourite tune prior to that night... even more so after that.
Hearing him and Fergus perform it live was amazing. After the song I shook
their hands and Thanked them both, and I could just tell that this is what
they were all about..... genuinely making people happy with their music.
I know my children will know their music and they'll always know their
roots.
Dermot, may God Bless you and welcome you Home.
To his wife Anne & his children.. God Bless you all, and thank you for
sharing this wonderful man with the world.
Todd & TerriLynn Mercer
Fort McMurray, (AB)
(formerly of Whitbourne)
I am certainly saddened by the news of
Dermot's' passing.
My Dad Don Parker first introduced me to the music of Ryan's Fancy around
1971 when the boys were playing the Black Night Lounge in Halifax. I was too
young to see them perform there but quickly became a fan when their TV show
started & rarely missed
a show. In the late 70's & early 80's I had the privilege of attending some
tapings of the show.
When the band broke up I kind of lost track of what the three were doing but
heard Fergus & Dermot were still performing around St. John's & Denis was
doing the odd show in Halifax.
Then just a few years ago when the tall ships were in Halifax, I wondered
down to the Dartmouth waterfront & lo & behold about 18 guys were up on
stage singing Sea Shanty's. Well let me tell you what a performance. One of
them was Dermot.
During a break I was in the beer tent ordering a beer when next to me a
familiar voice said I'll have a Keith's please, I turned around & said I've
got to shake the hand of the man who sang "Chastity Belt". Dermot stuck out
his hand & said "Now there's one I haven't sung in a while!"
On Sunday night I was at the ECMAs & had a chance to speak to Ron Hynes who
told me the CBC were giving him about 16 seconds to say a few words about
Dermot & Ron was having a hard time firstly trying to overcome his grief at
the lost of his friend, & secondly how do you properly honour someone like
Dermot in just 16 seconds. Well the bottom line is you can't. But Ron went
on & gave a heart felt statement which touched us all. So next year it is up
to all of those who read this to call the producers at the CBC to make sure
that a proper tribute is arranged at the next ECMA's in Fredericton. Once
again we have truly lost a great soul & a fine musician. Right now, at this
very moment he's probably playing in the greatest band ever, flanked by John
Allan Cameron & Dermot's own idol from his early years Buddy Holly.
God bless you Dermot from one Nova Scotian who was touched by your music and
your soul.
Slante!
Dwight Parker
To Ann, Deirdre, Grainne, Suzanne and Families.
Just to let you all know we are thinking of you. You are all in our prayers
and our thoughts.
Claire, Paul, Clare and Paul Flanagan.
Dublin, Ireland.
He was a legend before his time, an
even bigger legend during his time. Now, with the sad and painful passing of
our friend, he will remain a legend.
Celtic music first caught my interest around 1992 and has never let go
since. When I first became interested, it was the magic of the instruments
that set the hook – the overpowering gut-feeling the fiddle brings, the
dazzlement of the fingers running across the frets of a mandolin, and the
chest-pounding vibrations from a deeply struck bodrhan.
As the love for the music grew, and as the appreciation of the lore attached
to it matured, came an unexplainable pure love for everything that is
Celtic/Traditional Folk Music. It became much deeper than a song with a cool
fiddle riff in the middle or a rapid increase in tempo as it got crazier
near the end. The music now had the ability to deliver emotions – pride,
sorrow, and the overwhelming feeling of pure happiness. No performer have I
ever seen nearly as capable of delivering this complete package –
performance after performance – as Dermot O’Reilly.
No matter how much you felt in love with the music; no matter how in love
you ever were or ever became with it while listening and watching him
perform, you could always see inside his heart and know that he felt the
same, even more-so. When he opened his guitar case up, he willingly opened
up his heart night after night.
I have always been able to talk with and, from time to time, play a tune or
two with some of my favourite Celtic performers. Those nights when you have
a few extra pints of courage in your system, a conversation with a few of
them seems like the perfect idea. But with Dermot, the feeling of awe and
wonder would always overpower me to the point I would just sit and watch him
as he left for the evening.
It remained that way until one night, I knew I just had to let him know how
much of an impact he has had and is continuing to have on my life and my
music. I approached him after his set was complete at O’Reilly’s Pub, and as
I chatted with him, the topic of the 2005 benefit concert surfaced. I told
him how I had no other choice but to drive in from Gander for that night, no
matter what the circumstances. Instead of shaking my hand or patting me on
the shoulder in thanks, he dropped his guitar case and gave me a heart-felt
hug and said “Thank you – that means a lot to me. That concert helped me
through a very difficult time in my life.”
I stood there in wonder at the fact that once again, he opened his heart up
to show his feelings – something he has been doing for all of us ever since
he arrived on our shores. It takes an incredibly huge heart to begin with to
touch as many hearts as he has.
Now I must say to Dermot – Thank YOU – for your music, your influence, and
for your love of life and everything about it. We will miss you while we’re
here, and we will see you when we’re gone. We’ll give you a toast over our
next pint. You will always be remembered.
Jim Bragg,
Gander
A legend, a Newfoundland icon, left us this
weekend. Dermot's legacy will live on forever in our great province and
throughout Canada and Ireland. The last time I watched Dermot and Fergus
perform I was lucky enough to be sitting close enough to them during one of
their breaks to share a pint with them. This is a memory that will last
forever. To
Dermot's family, his legendary partner Fergus, and the large circle of
musicians that knew Dermot as a friend, I offer my condolences.
"And she hopes that tomorrow will kindly attend to the bountiful
sea, and the land and her people will always be free"
Steve Smith
Long Cove, NL
I became an instant fan/friend of
Dermot when I first met him performing @ The Light/Harbor& Tickle many years
ago. His music always kept you connected to your roots & his talent, humour
& friendly acknowledgement of your presence at his performances always left
you with a warm feeling. I feel honored to be at his final show on Friday
night. His passing will leave a void in our lives but we will cherish the
memories. To Ann, the girls & their families also Fergus O' Byrne & Ralph
O'Brien my sincere sympathy.
Sincerely,
Anna Power
I had
a great childhood growing up in Dublin with you Dermot. Memories flood back
of us doing the "boxing the Fox", a little bit of mitching from school and
having great fun in the valley. Another time we bought a car together - a
very old car - £20 - a very old ford prefect - lots of money in those days.
We had a great time fishing, cycling, cricket and making sure we did not
upset our big brother Tom or he would break the stumps and that would be the
game over. Remember one night we saw the heather burning up the Dublin
mountains, so we decided to go and investigate the fire. Unfortunately, we
were roped into putting out the fire. Its amazing what two pints of Arthur
will do for you. We lost our light, anyway and when the fire was put out we
had to make our way down the mountain in the dark. I heard manys a great
quote from you but this one was the best of all - At 2 o'clock in the
morning struggling down the mountain wet and cold Dermot , but this time you
quoted JFK, President of America "its not what your country can do for you
but what you can do for your country" and I would not repeat my answer to
you. !!
Thinking of you at this very sad time, Fergus.
We were always great buddies, and you will be missed so much. I am so proud
to have you as a Brother.
Eddie, Galway. Ireland.
To Ann and all the girls, you are in our thoughts
Tom and Rose, Gay and Patsy, Eddie and Mare and all the O'Reilly Family in
Ireland.
Dermot's music and the music of Ryan's
Fancy hand a profound impact on
my life. There were countless times that their music made me realize
how fortunate I am and how the simple things in life are often the most
important. Dermot's music celebrated the life history of so many and I
am so honored to have taken the time to have listened.
I would like to take this opportunity to send my deepest condolences to
his wife and family, Fergus, Denis, and all of his dear friends.
You will be missed dearly in so many ways,
Kirk Wiseman
Watching the East Coast Music Awards
and hearing Ron dedicate his song to Dermot made my heart sink. I worked at
O'Reilly's Pub for a short time and had the pleasure of hearing Dermot and
Fergus play, as well as share a few pints after hours. What a great man -
full of stories, smiles and genuine heart. Candlelight and Wine is a
favorite song for my wife and I, and since she is from Saskatchewan, she
appreciated and knew how lucky she was hearing it live a couple of times
during visits to the province.
The music landscape will be missing a large piece of the foundation. The
Province will be missing a great person who brought smiles to everyone he
met - whether he knew them or not.
Cheers to you Dermot - I will have a pint for you
Leigh Fitzpatrick
Regina, SK
I, like so many other fortunate people, have the
honor and privilege to say Dermot was my friend. And what an honor indeed.
What made Dermot so special was simply that he always had time for his
admirers, always had that sparkle in his eye, and was as true and genuine a
person that you will ever come across. A big nod of his head as he
recognized you entering a pub, that big "why hello" as he approached you and
that magical voice that touched so, so many people.
My memories of Dermot are many. Sharing a drink in between sets at Erins,
listening to his words of wisdom and enjoying his very unique wit and humour.
Watching and listening to him and Fergus perform virtually non-stop for
hours in my fathers rec. room in 2002 for a party honoring my fathers 60th
birthday. Working in conjunction with him and Fergus as I arranged some gigs
here on the Burin Peninsula in Lawn, Lords Cove, Point May and Allan's
Island. Four shows in two days and two wonderful nights, again in my fathers
rec. room, lasting long after the curtains closed on the shows. And how can
I forget Dermot finishing up for the night at the Blarney Stone then coming
upstairs to Henrys Haven for "one more pint" before going home.
Over the last little while my girlfriend Stephanie has also gotten to know
Dermot and she, like so many others, just found him so genuine, so honest,
so real. Dermot, you leave with your family and countless friends a lifetime
of good memories and a legacy that will not be matched. My heartfelt
condolences to Ann, your three daughters and to Fergus and his family as
well.
For me personally, going downtown will never again be the same but your
laughter, your smile, the gleam in your eyes and your voice will live on
forever.
Jimmy Rogers & Stephanie Edwards
Lawn, NL
Me and my husband always remember when Dermot used
to perform at Drake's pub in Lab. City. He would hang with us in between
sets and grace us with his outstanding personality and memorable presence
and humor. I also remember him being shocked of all the hot wings me and my
husband used to eat!!. We could sit and listen to him for hours, and did!!
He is a musical legend, and will be remembered and sadly missed.
Marlene and Mike Thompson.
(Niece of Boyd Warren Chubbs (fellow musician/artist/good friend) of Mr.
Dermot O'Reilly)
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Obituary
Media coverage of the passing of
Dermot O'Reilly:
Mourners remember Dermot
(Audio)
CBC Funeral Coverage
CBC
CBC Radio
Canadian
Press
Ryan's Fancy retrospective
from 2004 ECMA's
From Youtube:
Dermot and Fergus at O'Reilly's



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